It doesn’t seem fair, does it?

Those who work harder and push themselves more get punished by getting more severe Glandular Fever and/or Chronic Fatigue and Fibromyalgia. We try extra hard to achieve and be productive and then end up suffering more…not fair, is it?

I know, I know! – this is where everyone says things like “well you pushed yourself too hard” and “you need to learn to slow down”.

Important note: There is truth to this; most likely we do need to reassess and find ways to bring balance and ‘down time’ into our busy lives. But do you think telling us that it’s our fault and that we brought this illness onto ourselves is helpful? Not after the 100^th time it’s not!

So, this section is specifically for athletes and very busy people because the change from super-busy, constantly active person to lying on the couch for days at a time because you’re too tired to move is especially hard to adjust to. It’s going from one extreme to the other.

I would love to hear from fellow athletes, academics, and busy people. How did you cope with the adjustment? What are you doing now to find balance?

Athletes in particular have a hard time, because being physical is what you do! You spend hours and hours making sure your body is in excellent physical condition and spend months training your mind to push through mental barriers and then WHAM you go to being unenergetic, unmotivated coach potato.

What makes it worse is that your team mates/training buddies and competitors are continuing to train and get better. Plus, you have no idea how long it will take for you to start training again.

Is it better for you to over-estimate? But this again is hard to adjust to and can just lead to you feeling more depressed. Or should you under-estimate? But then if you don’t get there, you will feel bad also.

I took some consolation from the knowledge that other top athletes have battling with and overcome Glandular Fever. I read that Stephanie Rice struggled with it for two years – and while those years must have been hard, she was able to compete again.

So, there is HOPE.

I think you need to accept that your body will not be back to the state it was for a few months, but it will happen. Just be patient and optimistic.

What about you? Do you agree? Disagree? Comment?